Unveiling Your Dream Bathroom: 10,000 Votes on Essential Remodel Decisions
Embarking on a bathroom renovation can feel like navigating a maze of choices. From major structural changes to the smallest aesthetic details, every decision impacts both functionality and the overall feel of your space. Recently, my husband Robert and I found ourselves in this exact predicament, facing critical choices for our master bathroom. This wasn’t just any renovation; our bathroom had been severely damaged by a significant water leak from the attic, leaving us with a blank slate, but also a daunting task.
Our current bathroom is notably smaller than the master bath in our previous home. This size constraint made every design decision a high-stakes trade-off. One of our initial ideas was to convert the existing shower area into a separate water closet for the toilet and install a larger, more luxurious shower in the main space. The reasoning was simple: enhanced privacy and comfort, especially crucial in a shared master bathroom. However, this grand vision came with a catch – it would mean sacrificing double sinks for a single one, immediately sparking the debate: “Is the expense and effort of relocating plumbing worth losing a double vanity?”
To tackle this and many other tough design dilemmas, we turned to our incredible community on Instagram Stories. We launched a series of “Would You Rather?” polls, inviting over 10,000 followers to weigh in on various bathroom design decisions. The results were not only insightful but often completely unexpected, leading us to reconsider and even dramatically alter our initial renovation plans. If you’re planning your own bathroom transformation, these collective insights from thousands of homeowners and design enthusiasts could be invaluable in shaping your ideal space.
Bathroom Design Debates: Real Homeowners Share Their Best Advice
We asked, you voted, and the collective wisdom of over 10,000 people has revealed some surprising preferences in modern bathroom design. Let’s dive into the 16 crucial debates that shaped our renovation plans and can guide yours too.
Lisa Staton Design | Cari Berg Interior Design
1. Double Sinks vs. Toilet Closet
The Vote: 60% Double Sinks – 40% Toilet Closet
WINNER: Double Sinks
Reader Insight:
The convenience of a double vanity emerged as a clear priority for many. As Ellen wisely put it, “My husband and I are close enough that we don’t mind having a toilet in the main part of the bathroom, but I CANNOT share a sink with him when we’re trying to get ready in the morning. That’s a deal breaker.” This highlights the practical benefits for couples sharing a bathroom, streamlining morning routines and reducing potential friction. However, Jennifer offered a strong counterpoint for the toilet closet, emphasizing privacy: “It’s a huge turn off to me when I walk into a nice bathroom but see a toilet in the middle of the room. I’d rather it be hidden, and it makes it easier for two people to share a master bathroom.” This shows a clear desire for separation and a more aesthetically pleasing presentation of the toilet area, especially in larger master baths where space allows for both.
Micasa Revista | Mandarina Studio
2. Tub/Shower Combo vs. Shower Only, No Tub
The Vote: 39% Tub/Shower Combo – 61% Shower Only, No Tub
WINNER: Shower Only, No Tub
Reader Insight:
The preference for a shower-only bathroom, particularly in the master suite, was a significant finding. Many respondents, like Alex, pointed to the practicalities: “The tub/shower combo thing is a freaking pain to keep clean all the time. Showers are way less maintenance. Seems like way less people take baths nowadays than they used to anyway.” This sentiment reflects a modern shift towards efficiency and ease of upkeep. However, the importance of a tub elsewhere in the home, especially for families, was also highlighted. Joy noted, “I have to have at least one tub somewhere in the house even if it’s not in the main bathroom, especially with kids. But only for kids. I personally don’t take baths frequently so I don’t miss having a tub.” For those seeking a touch of luxury, Becca suggested, “If you’re going for luxury, you need a tub for sure. Maybe even a vintage clawfoot style one with a shower above if you don’t like the more modern looking tub/showers? Those seem to add more charm.” This suggests that while standalone showers dominate master baths, a separate tub, perhaps in a secondary bathroom, remains highly valued for specific needs or aesthetic preferences.
Jennifer Muirhead Interiors | Made by Carli
3. Large Shower vs. Double Sinks
The Vote: 39% Large Shower – 61% Double Sinks
WINNER: Double Sinks
Reader Insight:
This debate strongly favored double sinks, even when pitched against the allure of a spacious shower. Jackie shared a surprising regret: “We had our bathroom remodeled two years ago with a large shower because I thought it would be soooo great to have and make our bathroom really feel more upscale. I absolutely hate it. Showers are cold in that large space and I dread it. They look nice but in actuality, they’re not worth it. I’d rather use that wasted space for more sink room.” This candid feedback highlights a potential downside of oversized showers – they can feel less cozy and less efficient, especially in colder climates. Conversely, Melissa argued for the resale value of a large shower: “I’ll totally share a sink with my husband if it means I can have a really nice big shower!!! Plus, I feel like large showers do better for resale. At least that’s the case for me if I were looking at buying a house.” This shows that while functionality and personal comfort are paramount, the potential impact on future home value also plays a role in renovation choices.
Katie Martinez Design | Casey Keasler
4. Closed Shower Room vs. Glass or Open Shower
The Vote: 52% Closed Shower Room – 48% Glass / Open Shower
WINNER: Closed Shower Room
Reader Insight:
In a tight race, the enclosed shower room edged out the more contemporary glass or open shower designs. The primary reason cited by many, like Tammy, was maintenance: “Cleaning large glass shower doors is paaaaaiiiiiin! Mine always always look awful because they’re such a chore to do.” The constant battle against water spots and soap scum on glass surfaces is a real deterrent. Bailey shared a less-than-ideal experience with an open concept: “We stayed in a VRBO once with a big open shower and I thought it would be so amazing. Water got all over the place and it felt like showering in a hospital. Just cold and blah. I couldn’t wait to get the heck out of there. It’ll be a miracle if that open shower doesn’t cause some kind of water damage.” This feedback highlights issues with water containment and temperature regulation in open showers. Lisa’s endorsement of the closed room speaks volumes for comfort: “We put in an enclosed shower room and I will never go back. It’s like showering in a warm, cozy blanket of steam. Ahhhh love it.” The desire for a warm, steamy, spa-like experience appears to outweigh the visual openness of glass.
1st Dibs | Rosa Beltran Design
5. Large Shower vs. Linen Cabinet
The Vote: 45% Large Shower – 55% Linen Cabinet
WINNER: Linen Cabinet
Reader Insight:
Storage triumphs over expansive shower space. The consensus was clear: practical storage solutions are paramount in a bathroom. Leah’s concise advice summarizes it perfectly: “Any time you can get MORE storage in a bathroom, just do it!” Allie echoed this sentiment, calling large showers a “ridiculous waste of space” when storage is so often at a premium. This suggests that homeowners prioritize functionality and organization over a lavish shower footprint, especially in smaller or moderately sized bathrooms where every square foot counts. However, Crystal offered a counter-perspective from a minimalist standpoint: “I will FIGHT someone to have a big shower. If I need a vanity AND a linen closet, I have too much stuff and need to purge. But I’m more of a minimalist so maybe that’s not the norm.” This highlights that personal lifestyle and storage needs significantly influence this decision, but for the majority, storage reigns supreme.
Jean Stoffer Design | Atlanta Homes
6. Scallop Backsplash vs. Sink Ledge Backsplash
The Vote: 27% Scallop Backsplash – 73% Sink Ledge
WINNER: Sink Ledge
Reader Insight:
When it came to backsplash style, practicality once again steered the decision. The sink ledge, while aesthetically pleasing, was a concern for some, as Megan pointed out: “I can see that sink ledge being a big clutter collector. If it’s not there my husband and I aren’t tempted to put stuff on it.” This emphasizes the desire for clean, uncluttered surfaces in the bathroom. Despite the charm of the scallop design, Krista’s comment summarizes the sentiment: “That scallop backsplash is gorrrrrrgggggggg! But I think the ledge is more practical.” This suggests that while decorative elements like a scallop backsplash can be very attractive, the everyday utility and ease of maintenance offered by a simple, clean sink ledge often take precedence in a highly functional space like a bathroom.
Architectural Digest | Architectural Digest
7. Airy Bathroom vs. Moody Bathroom
The Vote: 92% Airy vs. 8% Moody
WINNER: Airy Bathroom
Reader Insight:
An overwhelming majority preferred a light and airy bathroom aesthetic. The desire for a tranquil and clean environment was a recurring theme. Emily stated simply, “I want my bathroom to feel peaceful and lots of white feels peaceful.” Carole succinctly equated “White = spa,” highlighting the association of bright, light spaces with relaxation and cleanliness. Annie brought up a practical concern with darker palettes: “Black would show dust eeeeeverywhere!!!!!” This emphasizes that while moody bathrooms can be visually striking, their maintenance might be more demanding. The strong preference for airy designs reflects a general desire for bathrooms to be refreshing, serene, and easy to keep spotless, aligning with a common perception of a personal sanctuary.
Sloane Studio Interiors | Marie Flanigan Interiors
8. Rug vs. No Rug
The Vote: 66% Rug vs. 34% No Rug
WINNER: Rug
Reader Insight:
Despite some valid concerns, the majority voted in favor of having a rug in the bathroom. Critics like Mandi questioned, “Why put down all that pretty tile just to cover it up with a rug?” and Audrey raised a serious safety point: “My mother slipped and fell on a bathroom rug once and broke her wrist. They’re a hazard!” These are important considerations for aesthetics and safety. However, the comfort factor proved stronger for most. Caroline expressed a popular design trend: “Vintage rugs in bathrooms!!! I love them!!!” Vanessa highlighted the practical benefits: “I always have a rug… it’s nice having something warm under your feet while you’re getting ready. And I have a bad back, so standing on a little extra cushion on a rug helps when I’m standing at the vanity doing makeup/hair.” Cindy even dreamed of the ultimate comfort: “Heated floors!!!” This feedback underscores that while rugs can pose challenges, the warmth, softness, and added personal touch they bring to a bathroom are highly valued by many homeowners.
Kate Marker Interiors
9. Sconce Vanity Lights vs. Pendant Vanity Lights
The Vote: 58% Sconce Lights – 42% Pendant Lights
WINNER: Sconce Lights
Reader Insight:
Sconce lighting emerged as the preferred choice for bathroom vanities, primarily due to its superior functionality for tasks like applying makeup. Miranda’s insight was key: “When I’m putting on makeup, I want light hitting my face from both sides instead of up above. Overhead lights create weird shadows and I can’t see what I’m doing as well.” Sconces typically provide more even, flattering illumination by lighting the face from the sides, reducing harsh shadows. While pendant lights can add a decorative and modern touch, as Paige observed (“Pendants seem more funky and sconces are nice but more ‘expected'”), their overhead placement might be less ideal for direct task lighting. This vote emphasizes that for many, practicality in lighting takes precedence over purely aesthetic considerations in a highly functional space like the vanity area.
Jenni Kayne | My Domaine
10. Brass Fixtures vs. Black Fixtures
The Vote: 46% Brass Fixtures vs. 54% Black Fixtures
WINNER: Black Fixtures
Reader Insight:
Black fixtures narrowly beat out brass, indicating a strong contemporary preference. However, this debate also revealed diverse opinions and practical considerations. Lindsay voiced a common sentiment: “Neither! Where’s the brushed nickel?” highlighting the enduring popularity of other finishes. Lisa brought up a crucial maintenance point for black fixtures: “We have black fixtures and apparently hard water… it makes me crazy that you can see white spots on the drain stopper in the sink and bathtub. Something to think about if you have hard water where you live.” This is a significant factor for long-term satisfaction. Tasha noted the stylistic associations: “Black says farmhouse to me. Brass says traditional. Depends on the vibe.” Reya chimed in for brass: “Brass adds a little warmth I think. Makes neutral not seem so cold.” Ultimately, Mary Beth offered a pragmatic solution: “Do both!” This discussion shows that while trends exist, personal preference, home style, and practicalities like water quality heavily influence fixture choices, and a mix-and-match approach can also be successful.
HGTV | Country Living Magazine
11. Built-In Linen Cabinet vs. Freestanding Vintage Cabinet
The Vote: 53% Built-In vs. 47% Freestanding Vintage
WINNER: Built-In
Reader Insight:
The timeless appeal of built-in storage edged out the charm of freestanding vintage pieces. While vintage furniture can add unique character, concerns about practicality and longevity were prevalent. Tracy shared a key worry: “Ohhhhh that’s hard! Only thing I can say is vintage furniture can smell weird sometimes. I don’t want my towels smelling old and musty.” This speaks to the desire for fresh, clean storage in a bathroom environment. Makenzie also raised valid points about durability in a humid space: “The built-in seems more practical. I worry what the humidity in a bathroom could do to a vintage piece of furniture. It’s beautiful though.” Built-in cabinets often offer a seamless look, maximize space, and are designed to withstand the unique conditions of a bathroom, making them a slightly more practical choice for many homeowners.
Interior Blooms Design Co. | Amber Interiors
12. Color vs. Neutral
The Vote: 35% Color vs. 65% Neutral
WINNER: Neutral
Reader Insight:
Neutral palettes remain the dominant choice for bathrooms, largely due to their timeless appeal and versatility. Kirsten articulated this perfectly: “Neutral is more timeless. You’d be less likely to regret it later.” Choosing neutral tiles and finishes provides a classic foundation that can be easily updated with colorful accessories, towels, or art without a major renovation. However, there’s also a strong argument for embracing color, especially for those with vibrant personalities. Amber commented, “I looooove that green! Depends on your personality. If you’re a bright, colorful person, have a bright, colorful bathroom.” This highlights that while neutral offers longevity, a bold color choice can create a truly personalized and inspiring space, reflecting the homeowner’s unique style.
Apartment Therapy | Architectural Digest
13. One Large Mirror vs. Double Mirrors
The Vote: 42% One Large Mirror – 58% Double Mirrors
WINNER: Double Mirrors
Reader Insight:
When it comes to vanity mirrors, individual double mirrors were favored over one expansive mirror. Myra’s comment, “Large mirrors seem builder grade-ish,” suggests that separate mirrors can offer a more custom, upscale look compared to the standard single, large mirror often found in new constructions. This choice allows for more personalized styling and frames each sink area distinctively. However, Tammy made a strong case for the large mirror’s practical benefits: “Large mirror makes the room feel bigger.” In smaller bathrooms, a single large mirror can indeed create the illusion of more space and light. The preference for double mirrors often aligns with the trend of double vanities, allowing each user their dedicated reflection space and contributing to a more refined aesthetic.
House Beautiful | The Lifestyled Co
14. Patterned Tile Floor vs. Simple Tile Floor
The Vote: 41% Patterned Tile vs. 59% Simple Tile
WINNER: Simple Tile
Reader Insight:
Simple tile floors narrowly won out over patterned designs, largely due to concerns about longevity and maintenance. Sean’s observation, “Patterned tile can date a bathroom really fast. I’m already looking at patterned tile these days and thinking, ‘That’s very 2015,'” highlights the risk of patterned tiles becoming quickly outdated. For a feature as permanent as flooring, many homeowners prefer a timeless aesthetic. Alisha also pointed out a practical benefit of larger, simple tiles: “I just like big tile because it’s fewer grout lines to clean.” Fewer grout lines mean less cleaning effort. However, Sharon offered a practical counterpoint for patterned tiles: “Patterned helps hide dirt.” This is a valid consideration, especially in high-traffic bathrooms. Ultimately, the desire for a classic, easy-to-maintain floor typically sways the decision towards simpler tile designs.
Studio McGee | Studio McGee
15. Wall Tile vs. Wall Millwork
The Vote: 58% Wall Tile – 42% Wall Millwork
WINNER: Wall Tile
Reader Insight:
Wall tile was preferred over millwork for bathroom walls, again with a strong emphasis on practicality and hygiene. Megan noted, “Wall tile is so much easier to keep clean and fresh looking.” The non-porous and durable nature of tile makes it ideal for the humid and splash-prone environment of a bathroom, offering superior protection and easier cleaning compared to painted millwork. However, Michelle provided a budget-conscious perspective: “Millwork would probably be less expensive if budget is a concern. But still pretty!” This highlights that while tile is often favored for its durability and ease of maintenance, millwork can be an attractive and cost-effective alternative for adding architectural interest, especially in areas less exposed to direct water.
Chris Loves Julia | Studio McGee
16. Wood Vanity vs. Painted Vanity
The Vote: 39% Wood Vanity vs. 61% Painted Vanity
WINNER: Painted Vanity
Reader Insight:
Painted vanities, offering a vast spectrum of colors and finishes, were the clear favorite over natural wood. Jen’s enthusiastic “I just voted painted because that blue is amazing!” captures the excitement a well-chosen paint color can bring to a bathroom. Painted vanities allow for greater personalization and can easily match or contrast with other elements of the room’s design. Sarah noted the cyclical nature of trends: “I knew wood cabinets would make a comeback one day. Seems like it’s happening a lot more lately, especially vanities that look more like furniture.” While natural wood is indeed seeing a resurgence, particularly in more furniture-like styles, painted finishes offer more flexibility for expressing individual taste and keeping up with evolving color trends. Vanessa perfectly summarized the dilemma, acknowledging the beauty of both options: “Ohh both are so beautiful don’t make us choose!!”
Your Bathroom Renovation Journey Starts Here
The collective wisdom shared by over 10,000 participants offers a fascinating glimpse into current bathroom design preferences and practical considerations. It’s clear that while aesthetics are important, functionality, ease of maintenance, and personal comfort often drive major renovation decisions. These insights have certainly helped Robert and I refine our plans for our master bathroom, shifting our focus to what truly matters for daily living.
Now that the significant layout and feature decisions are taking shape, we can finally move on to the really fun part: selecting the finishes and decorative elements that will bring our vision to life. We hope these polling results provide you with valuable guidance and inspiration as you embark on your own bathroom transformation. Remember, every home is unique, and the best design is one that perfectly suits your lifestyle and preferences.
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